2010年6月20日星期日

always concerned about the shortcomings. If you always do not know enough

The world is not perfect, life as a lack. Do not regret the past can not connect the future. For each people, not perfect is an objective, no complaining.

famous musician Thomas? Jefferson handsome, his wife Martha to marry him, there are two underestimate the enemy is also pursuing Martha.

a Sunday, the two rival Martha Jefferson house ran into. So, they are ready to unite shame Jefferson. However, when the door came the sound of the beautiful violin, and a sweet voice in the accompaniment. music

water flowing around the room, the two rival at this time even the courage to push the door of Martha home, their tacit away, never came back.

God who is fair, and it gave the musicians talent, not given to him in the face, but nothing to boast about what? Important is that you can find their own value, bursting out with their own light.

had such a story, it gives us a lot of inspiration.

a hack to be a small piece of the circle to retrieve a complete himself, to find their own debris everywhere. Because it is incomplete, rolling very slowly, so enjoy the beautiful flowers along the way, it bugs chatting, it felt the full warmth of the sun. It found a number of different pieces, but they are not its original one, so it insists to find ... ... until one day, it achieved its wish. However, as a perfect circle, it is rolling too fast, missed the bloom of the season, ignoring the bugs. When it realized it all the time, it is still away from the arduous journey to find the pieces.

This story tells us, perhaps it is lost, that makes us complete. Perhaps it is defective, it reflects our reality.

wise there will be another outstanding shortcomings fool stupid has advantages. On the more positive assessment of people and not to a magnifying glass to see the shortcomings of life has been wide of the people on the strict approach, others must have been cast aside. Avoid perfectionism perspective, to observe each individual, to a tolerance that is tolerant of their shortcomings. Few criticisms of the heart, the heart more tolerant.

perfectionist who is very conceited surface,because they know not that they are not confident, deep down very low self-esteem. Because he rarely saw the advantages, always concerned about the shortcomings. If you always do not know enough, rarely confirm their confidence in their own very little chance, of course, a complex about. I do not know enough not happy, the pain was often followed him, the people around are not happy. Learn to appreciate other people enjoy themselves is very important to achieve this is to make further cornerstone of the next target.

everyone has flaws and weaknesses are, but as an independent entity, you have to believe that you have a lot of different places and even better than the others, you must use their unique image decorate the rich colorful world.

a lot of people because of their imperfections and lack of self-pity to lose confidence, become inferior.

People are not perfect, is better than gold. No one is perfect, Is there enough shortcomings is doomed to sorrow, to obscurity, you can not accomplish great things? In fact, if you put "shortcomings, deficiencies" on the piece of stone blocking the chest down, do not go excessively concerned about it, it also will not be your obstacles. If you know how to use it have not change the defects and deficiencies, then you are still a valuable person.

not because they are not perfect and I hate myself. You have many friends, none of them is perfect. Those are the perfect camouflage, in pursuit of perfection, in fact, take their life happiness is a joke. All the world is perfect and bad, face it, is the face of life's beginning.

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