I can not write this article

6, wait

This is the most impulsive people do not like the topic, I was not the subject, as it would cause too much controversy, but I do not intend to and argue this, but considering the career long-term planning, this is a Duobibuliao topic, decided to write a to write, do not like it please leave it.
not always wear the red light will be hit by a car, not every offender will be caught, not every mistake will be punished, not every corrupt official will be shot, not your every efforts will be rewarded, not adhere to your every will people see that every point you pay can not get a fair return, not every one of your good intentions can be understood ... ... This is the troubled world. Well, Shidao not good enough, but you have the courage to overthrow the troubled world What? If not, you have a better solution Why? Many times, people need a little patience and confidence. Everyone always turn a few things that are not fair, but usually the best way to peace of mind to wait.
a lot of times we need to wait, need to loneliness, waiting for you at that moment. Chow Yun-Fat wait too, had to wait for Andy Lau, Stephen Chow wait too, had to wait for Faye Wong, Zhang Yimou has been waiting for ... ... to see the successful adults they are today, you may have seen the original and the patience to wait for them? You can see the Golden Horse Award winner has a street vendor in the street? Have you ever seen a group of Devon in the theater community to an audience that crosstalk? You may have seen Stephen Chow's role are not even a line? Each winner has a deep depression of the day, I can almost imagine them the way they drinker, I can imagine them struggling to survive distress. Brilliant in their lives the most beautiful in the day, they want to succeed, but empty-handed, as are you. No guarantee that they will be successful in the future, and their choice is durability lonely. If then they always talking about the \
some people who I do not understand why the do not have the ability than I have to sit on my head, older than I would have to become a leader in my What? Why do some Black people do not need to be able to make money? Why just when reform and opening up so people can easily make money, and when our turn, what should be formalized? One day I suddenly thought, I was in school when they were struggling in the community struggle, they struggle in the society has accumulated over the next decade, we have new people come, some of them I like, I is not In a fair, am I to robbery. I might win too fast, because I could not help but lonely. More than 20-year-old man, no money, no business, there are vigorous desire.
people always setbacks, the people there will always be low, and there is not always understood the times, people always have to be humble when the time is precisely the key of life time, because we will be frustrated, but most people could not pass the threshold, you can too, you will be successful. At such moments, we need to be patient, to wait with confidence, I believe, will not give up your life, opportunities always come. At least, you're young, you do not go to jail, no students can not cure the disease, since there is no debt owed is not. Unfortunately, people are far more than you more than fortunate than you, you still afraid of what? Way to go step by step, although the arrival of that step is very exciting finish, but most of the steps are trivial or boring, but without these steps, or unable to bear the ordinary boring, you can not usher in the final after all that excitement people.
adversity, God help you out local competitors. To know that you feel good and others feel good and you stick to it no longer, like others, do not tell people you can not hold on, the only way people get uphold the confidence to players watching you smile face, loss of confidence, out of the race. Victory belongs to those who are patient people.
in the most desperate, I will go to the movies \When all the people leave, I do not lose hope, I do not give up. Every day in the car, I like humming \
originally posted Li Yiji friends I like the words, reproduced here:
Everyone wants their own unique special person
mouths Key born, reborn to a good home, work to the Power Authority Take 1w low probability events such as monthly salary, of course, the best turn their
Red Army 25000, labeled as right-wing counter-revolution, to work hard to fight the expense of dignity, it is best left to parents and others
natural grandparents , not every person will get eaten bitter return
However, any time, each of vested interests behind, has his father's ancestors struggled and even bloody struggle to pay life figure
jealous of others have a Good Ba Dad, nothing can not
problem is that your next generation, there will be a good father?
As asked why not have the same chance of winning probability? I can only ask: Why do species competition, and the monkeys can not have the same chance of winning probability?
natural selection. Monkey's soul is not necessarily humble than you, but behind you there are hundreds of accumulated years of ape evolution.


7, into the on-line with the human

in China, probably very few people is a job to do in the end, though this, first job or are in need of attention where there are two things particularly important, the first thing is to join, the second thing is with people. The first job is the greatest impact on people join the modern division of labor is very small, we basically can only become an expert in one industry can not become experts in various industries. Many cases also proved that even if a person is successful in an industry to another industry, things are absolutely not that back, \Apple joined the remarks, the results the very successful John in Pepsi to Apple flat. In fact, no industry particularly good, nor particularly bad sectors which may have reported that the average salary to which the industry is relatively high, but they did not say that the average pressure that the industry is relatively large. Once the industry looks beautiful only to find so many places is not perfect, but outsiders can not see.
honest, I do not own fortunes, so my proposal is to make people happy on the proposal, not how fortunes of the proposal, we only discuss the general situation of ordinary working person. I think the choice of what industry and not so much, can not just look at the issue before us. For example, from the previous year, the state began to rationalize the health care industry, many pharmaceutical companies are not going to open many of the pharmaceutical industry's sales started to change jobs. In fact, the recession is the pharmaceutical industry for all companies, not for a company, we are not better than the day, this is not worth the time to run away, and most of the formal business of pharmaceutical companies even do not do support the new two or three years always can sustain, the majority of pharmaceutical sales support through wage also can support two or three years, the state can not always tightly pinching the pharmaceutical industry, the 2023 census drawn after the circumstances will get better, then everyone else run and you do not run, then the time should be better than many. Sometimes feel the industry to die, the problem is that there is not the industry, nobody else has also become a good trade, when we all feel bad, they often are the best of times. We all feel the financial industry is good, the high threshold of the financial sector does not say how many people Xiaojiannaodai to passage to the competition and incentive, but also constantly watch into the future, an oversight, who was later to be squeezed out, and the pressure great, How can we talk about happiness? Also not necessarily \
solar energy this thing still can not enter the stage of practical application, but China already has seven and solar-related companies listed in NYSE, and the country is the United States Suning Paradise Trading Company, also listed, Lutai textile row 10 years of profit growth over 50%, served tea in a tea one, selling clothes HAILAN home can be listed ... ... In fact, the election really does not matter what industry, the key is how to do it. People to do things out, the key is people.
there is one thing to keep in mind, this world, ever be until we can foresee the future, successful people are always a few, the rich people are always a few, most people are normal, ordinary, less successful. Therefore, most people practice and opinion, often not from the success of recent practice and views. So most people say that good things are not necessarily good, most people say good things are not necessarily bad. Most people note down the time to stock only a matter of time when all the more enthusiastic, or the closer the day. When most people buy a house, house prices will not rise, but prices rose in almost the same time, that most people start to buy a house. Will not have such a thing so we all become successful and made money, history, never has been, and will not happen. Some things Even if the good luck has been, or will other places at other times lost.
young people beginning careers, particular attention is to do the right things, do not let your life for decades to come is always nervous, but not worth the job loss of his prime years . My company is a company not to pay bribes, before a lot of people do not understand, or even their own employees do not understand, but now we are the largest corporate peers, customers happy and we are dealing with, especially when the fight against corruption in the country, each Everybody knows the reputation of our business do not pay all dare to do business with us. The courage to give money to the company, not the other way, that is, running, or else sleep well every day, people still look at longer term. Very often, it seems the nearest road, is the longest road, the road seems far, is the nearest road.
with the right people is that after joining the good teachers keep up a good leader, who just joined the community to do things often do not experience, need some words and deeds. For a human development is a good leader is very important. The so-called \
First of all, a good leader must have a broad mind, if a leader will throw a tantrum every day, it is almost certain that he is not a broad-minded people who can not temper tantrums when leadership is most severe leadership. When the Chinese leadership can not tolerate the biggest problems is the ability to better than they are, so we often see a phenomenon is very capable leadership, a group of men a group of idlers mediocrity or men. If you see this kind of environment, or do not go well.
Second, leaders must willing to think in the perspective of subordinates, which is in fact, can be found from the time of the interview, if the leader is always considered from the perspective of their own problems, almost do not listen to what you say, That is dangerous. From the subordinate's point of view the problem statement does not mean agree with subordinates, but he must understand the position of subordinates, subordinates why think so, and then he have to convince you, only how to care for their leadership is often difficult to obtain convincing subordinates .
Third, leadership courage to bear the responsibility if a problem put the responsibility down to push, with the credit go out into the depersonalize, such leadership is not worth mentioning now. Select the leadership, to choose the leadership of the critical moment Kang Dezhu can pay for the mistakes subordinate leaders, because it was his responsibility as a leader.
possible, you can not touch a good leader, because China's leadership is often the butt decided to head for leadership, as he sat leadership position, so his words more reasonable, this is the traditional concept of government based errors, This ignorance may be a large number of incompetent leadership, but it is good for you, if you will one day more than him, you hope he is smarter or more stupid? Relatively buttoned such leadership is not difficult, but you should figure down to just their own. Learn more about some people, more and better than they are dealing with people, the same can find a good teacher, not a group of people with the same depressing indictment of society, complaints boss, it could not do anything you will only make you even more negative. And those dealing with people better than you, to see how they think, how to do it, learn from them, and then deal with more people.

8, select

we do most every day things, in fact choices, so when talking about his career have mentioned this topic.
I always believed that to a large extent, we really will be what kind of people the right to decide in our own day we are all doing a variety of options, I can not write this article, to other people's posts pat bricks, you can also write these words, but also to help others organize their own thoughts, I can pay more attention to others under the format easy to read, you can write a bunch, so I can send up , you can also look at the hair a few times before, you can choose not to shave went to the interview, you can choose the front of the mirror ... ... Every day, every moment we are doing this or that decision, we can casually, but also can spend more thought, and thousands of small choices add up, we ultimately decided on what kind of person.
sense our future is not given by others is our own choice, lives bitter with a lot of people will say I, ah, no choice A, if you think \or the North, \But every day you can choose whether to be more attentive customer service number, whether my colleagues even more patient, whether to work in a number of more detailed, is to understand the situation more clearly, whether to further clarify some of the problems was not clear ... ... You can also choose whether to continue to persist in pain, whether to discard the negative out their own ideas, whether to forgive a person's mistake, if I believe I am here to write these words, it should not make the same mistake ... ... live every day to give you choices every day to give you the opportunity to change your life, you can choose to rely on the ground Sapo roll, you can also choose to stand up teeth. You always have a choice. Some options are not immediate impact, the need to accumulate, such as farmers often choose to pour in, you can also choose to let God to pour in, be sure you are watering down this vaccine does not necessarily grow out of this immediately, but often casting water, most of the seedlings will eventually grow back, if you do not cast, the harvest will be very bad.
everyday life are giving you the opportunity, he will not give you hand over a pile of cash will not give you a good job, but in fact, he still give you a chance. My family is an ordinary family, without any great social relations, my father was in college after graduation was assigned to the border on, that only a small county road, they are actually a generation better than we have reason to complain, what they did not get, a young man during the Cultural Revolution, no books were read, support the border Chaduilahu, until the old, but give the young a chance. He has good reason as thousands of young people like to sit there complaining about untimely grievances. However, after ten years assigned to the frontier, the state recruit graduate students to resume his test back to the original school. Graduate school, he was assigned to a small unit in Anhui, is 3 years, the state first had admitted doctoral student, he returned to the original school examination to become China's first generation, Dr. his time than now, I age is still large. Did not give up his life, he did not give up life. 10 years of waiting, he made his own choice, he did not give up, he did not 破罐子破摔, so when the time comes, he changed his life. You will eventually become the kind of person, it was decided in between your every little choice.
you choose to believe? You choose and who to make friends? What do you choose? How do you choose? ... ... We are faced with too many choices, and among these choices, ideological level, the choice of the objective conditions of choice than the much more important, such as selecting what product is not so important, and the choice how to do that counts. It does not matter what people choose, how to choose important with these people. Most of the time and the objective conditions of choice does not matter, most of the choices on the objective conditions are not right or wrong, what matters is to choose how to do it. A college graduate, he was going to Microsoft Ye Hao, who sell pork Ye Hao, he would venture Ye Hao, he wants the game Dailian, but whatever does not break the law, not harm, all does not matter, what matters is that the choice of the future, how to make things better.
In addition to these, you can also choose the time and the environment, for example, you can choose to put my life on the most difficult the most physical, when the most energy, you can see step by step, until the 40-year-old say, but to more than 40 years old, that life is most vulnerable when there are elderly parents to care, if at that time run into a career crisis, it is a very distressing thing. Such as its 20-year-old to eat more than 30 years of hard time, so that their fragile calm some of the time live. You can choose to grow in a greenhouse, you can also choose to sharpen the field, you can choose to work in the office Chuileng Qi, also have the option under the heat of 40 degrees, see your client, but all this would eventually accumulate, leading you go to the future you deserve.
I can not say all the things you have have to choose, but most of the things that you have a choice, but often you do not treat this as an option. Seriously every choice, will have a better future.

9, choice of occupation

career choices, in general, nothing more than sales, marketing, customer service, logistics, administration, personnel, finance, technology, management of several categories, there are interesting phenomenon is that among the top 500 CEO is the largest sales came in the second and more people have the financial background, both of which add up to about 95%. Modern IT industry is also a technical background to be the boss, but in reality, then they are still in a lot of sales and marketing work and outstanding performance, the company was a success, completely rely on technical skills to become boss, and almost no. This is a good reason, because the sales person is the one dealing with the knowledge and management of actually dealing with people, learning, among which there are many parallels between the two things, their common goal is to \specific things. \Two days before
hear a word that makes sense, when we started to \Why is that so many leaders in the conservative, this does not work that does not work, missing many opportunities. Many times it is because you are young, you want the \
I am not advocating we all do sales or finance, how to choose what kind of job, and you really have to choose what kind of life there are relationship, some people like to work on time to go home, take a look at books and listening to music, that is quite good, but not for sale to find a job, otherwise they will be tortured themselves. Some people liked the limelight, love being the center of a group of people, if you choose to do financial work, probably soon thereafter, because most bosses do not like to finance too positive, do not like it too much financial. Think of yourself first, how to lead a life, and then decide what kind of job to find. There are many unhappy, in fact, is derived from satisfied, not satisfied, often derived from the unsettled and uncertain while the heart is not clear whether they have to because what is not clear what the result should be anything you want The results are nothing.
I think because we live and work, not because of work and life, life is most important, is only a part of life. I always feel that all aspects of life are interdependent, and if life itself is a confusing situation, the work will not be smooth. So have fun, be social, to exercise, there must be harmony in the family ... ... the most important thing, to be happy, I am looking for two sales talk to me, a stomach bitter water, I asked them two years ago, what you no, wages are not high, there is no customer relationship, not performance, at the edge of being open, you are now much better condition than it was then, why more is not happy now? The more the better if you do not happy, then why would you work? First of all, first of all, people still want to get yourself excited, so that my mind better, from the heart of this change will let you be more patient, more confident, better temperament, more inclusive ... ... Otherwise, take a look at the mirror inside you, What you satisfied?
Some people may say, you say easy, I work overtime every day, no overtime will be the boss fired me, was dead tired every day, find time entertainment, socializing, exercise? That is one reason the target set too high, if you are still frequently will be the boss fired the edge, then you certainly can not set goals too high, do not you want to play golf every day? You do not have time to gym workout, but the time to work and walk to it, stairs take the stairs when the lift can not go right? Office space shilly-neck shoulders, do some push-ups Lara can you? Who provides training on evidence must be given to the gym two hours a day? You do not have time to socialize, participate in outings once a month to it, what the weekend to attend a music class, art classes can like it, to try to know some peers, and they are looking for an opportunity to exchange the exchange can you? The beginning is always some difficulty, but this step will be to the direction of a virtuous circle. Work every day very depressed, and the rest of the time to chew depressed, will fall into a vicious circle, make life worse.
Although HP is only 15 days away, but I feel very far away from HP already. I was thinking more on planning the second phase of their life, this does not mean I have no love of Hewlett-Packard, mainly use this to drive themselves forward.
Vanke Wang Shi Everest experience gave me a lot of inspiration, although the departure carry large amounts of material, but the summit process, must continue to reduce the load, ultimately only one oxygen bottle, and he reach the summit. Climbing so, long life time too.
I declare that after retirement, received the congratulations of friends and schoolmates colleagues. Most people think that I can in such a position and age choose to retire is a courage is a blessing.
there are still some doubts I just take this opportunity to change jobs, of course, some people say I can not go on at HP, and take this opportunity to leave.
I have been accustomed to make irresponsible remarks on my others, but for friends, I am still very concerned about whether we really understand my thinking, this is the purpose of writing this article.
due to premature death of my father, I have long determined to achieve their aspirations in their lifetime, and I do not like my father, for the busy family life, life, death before the sad, upset and did not realize they have a lot of ideal.
a magazine article mentioned that we should be thinking in his lifetime his epitaph, because it represents your own definition of the perfect life, we should try to realize it in their lifetime.
I want my epitaph on the family and friends in addition to the content, this is written:
1. that the person serving one of the largest IT companies (HP) 25 years, and she 've gone through several major changes, watching her from the electronic instrument as a major business transformation into the world's largest IT company.
2. that the person in the world's fastest growing countries (China) for 16 years and served as president of HP China, 7 years, witnessed and experienced the key to China's reform and opening up, the latest breakthrough in stage and grow together with China.
3. The people love flying, once a licensed pilot and flight hours accumulated more than X hours, X airports had been taking off and landing.
4. This man had a master's degree in Management, the management of particular concern in leading Chinese companies organizational behavior and performance, and in this field was recognized by the Chinese business community.
my time 25 years 1 and 2 summarize the two results, I do not know how long it takes also time-consuming desire to reach 3 and 4, in particular the desire to go through the first four academic training, to sum up my experience into knowledge .
otherwise I will not effectively influence the experience and teach others. So to re-enter school, take a degree in management is necessary, not to mention a very important This is my desire.
other hand, I spent 25 years operating (operation) of the area, dedicated professionals doing the work, it is a good job, especially in the HP, this work has helped me build financial foundation to support the development of the family.
but I do not want to end their lives, are caught in the operations area, I imagine, like entrepreneurs, have the opportunity to rely on some ideas (ideas) to make money, although the risk is high, but worth a try, even if fails, take the tour worthwhile 1 This is also a desire among the 4th part.
Carly Fiorina once told me that \greater impact, I would like to influence my life in which a book called \
me these wishes in my heart has been brewing for a long time, beginning, perhaps once or twice a year to one, also had a forgotten, but gradually, this inner voice, growing, The frequency is also higher and higher, when it would come almost every week talking to me, I know the time is ripe.
but, like anyone, should throw away their own now, the familiar environment and a stable income, go to the one he was not experienced, the unknown risks of the road, requires great courage, family support and Friends of encouragement. There homes were only really easier said than done, I'm glad I finally taken the first step.
I want to thank HP for EER early retirement incentives, it is one of the key TriggerPoints, another key factor is what happened in June last year.
at My oldest graduated from college and her younger brother graduated from high school, they continue to work and study, and this is a prime time for the whole family can get together for a longer time, I plan for this early retirement a holiday, play around with them to.
But this plan as an important issue at work (Mark Hurd's visit to China) had to cancel. The incident spurred me to be serious to deal with that inner voice, I will continue to miss many of the key opportunities?
I have over 50 years, I will not go the same way my father? Personnel boss Charles told me that many people all in his favor when the stars are lined up, or miss opportunities.
I know why, because people give up and change how difficult it is, I believe most people have their own ideal of life, but I also believe many people eventually just put these ideals as an illusion, and then continuously for their search for an excuse can not be achieved, former South African President Nelson Mandela once said, \
What is a happy and meaningful life? I believe the definition of each individual is different, for me, to realize the content on my epitaph is my definition.
in China, while Hewlett-Packard CEO position to attract a lot of attention and eye, but my wife and more close friends, know that I did not pursue it just for this role must do its best to place .
be a person without business cards, although only a dozen days, but I found my head was empty and a lot of space and energy, so I can quietly for my new life ChapterII do meticulous research and planning .
my book to two years to complete the transition of the preparatory work and spend more time with their families live together. Two years time I hope to get pilot's license, get a master's degree related to the management to improve the standard of English, the establishment of new networks, learn more about different trades people to maintain ties with the mainland. Hope that after two years, I can successfully return to the mainland to achieve my fourth wish.
not surprisingly, in life, I found that many areas need to be adjusted.
20 years, the pace and rhythm of my life, almost entirely the work of the company and about the deadline and the task of constantly emission drive me every day arrangements, once the leave such an environment, the first adjustment is to rely on their own self-discipline and will power to drive the daily activities, sleep whenever he woke up definitely not the right attitude, relax, do not give things to set targets and timetables, or missed the target time does not matter, not right no annual, quarterly, monthly and weekly plans are not right.
as a senior manager for many years, now routinely used to explain things, mainly spent their time thinking, decision making and tracking the progress of the project, more is to rely on a large team to implement the specific issues and the secretary to deal with a lot of coordination and complicated matter.
to the United States, many things need to play 800 phone, but phones busy, so you waitingline waiting a long time, when I am waiting, I can understand where former Secretary of hard work, but also to remind myself, at this stage to change our attitudes, foster greater tolerance and DIY ability.
life have made great adjustments to the content, more time to exercise, more time to care about his family, more time to care about friends, more time to experience the various leisure activities and flight, step by step, and want to live I gradually adjusted to the desired track, looking forward to this two-year life of a substantial and full of fun and significance.
first happy experience is ready and set to participate in son's wedding, the kind of engaged and work without fear figures in my life. Well, I also rent an apartment, bought the furniture and car, with the family at the weekend to Reno and Lake Tahoe play for a while, LakeTahoe I went many times, but this time the experience is different, and I appreciate from the heart to its beauty.